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Toni and Glen asked:


How many of us ladies came up to our partners one day with a copy of a swinger’s magazine and said “honey, doesn’t this look fun? Let’s get into Swinging!!!” I didn’t think so. As my husband and I have always said over the years… for the most part, it is the man that brings up the issue, but it is the woman who keeps the couple involved. After we go through thinking that we are not loved, not sexual enough or that he is just a dog, we discuss it further.

Why do we go through this? Well to start, women are not brought up to know the beauty of sex! We were blessed with these soft, sensuous, wonderfully sensitive bodies and then told the feelings they give us are bad. We were told not to enjoy them with each other and not even with ourselves (can you smell the fire and brimstone?). We were brought up that sex is only for procreation and/or when our husband comes home drunk or just demands sex. (Of course, not all men are like this, I am using this as an example.) Aren’t you glad you don’t have to live like that?!

Acceptance of ourselves and our bodies is a process of UNLEARNING all the negative gobbledegoop we were taught. We had to learn that sex is not something to be ashamed of and that those wonderful tingling sensations are good and NORMAL. If we find ourselves admiring another man or woman and the vibration starts, don’t worry, we are not possessed by Satan; we are feeling a normal human reaction. Yes, it’s OK to admire that gorgeous guy across the room. In fact, you can talk to him, dance with him and take it as far as you like.

The wonderful thing is that once we have gone though the myriad of changes, we find that we experience a freedom of unparalleled boundaries!!! We no longer see it as our partners not being happy with us, but as a growth experience for both of us. Our partners probably notice a change also. Women who were shy and timid, slowly come out of their shells and become more confident and assured of themselves. Your personal sex lives get even steamier as you talk about the possibilities and later the experiences you have. This Community empowers women!

Of course, we sometimes find that our partners get a little mixed up as we blossom. Usually the men come into swinging with visions of nubile nymphs, all calling his name. The fact is that most men cannot compete with women. Most men can only cum so much and then they have to rest. Whereas, women can be multi-orgasmic! You may be at a party and he is spent and you are still ready to rumble! There he sits, with a limp dick and hurt feelings because you may not be ready to go. Compromise and discuss your partners feelings, because, this is a feeling he probably did not anticipate having. Grow together!! Communicate! Communicate!! Communicate!!!

Ladies, you are the glue that holds this swinger’s community together! You don’t believe it?! Picture a swinger’s dance, house party, or convention without women…. Now we are not saying this for you to put on a crown and armor, declare yourself Zeena, Queen of the Penis and tell your partner to feed you grapes (unless you both enjoy it, if that’s the case, may we suggest unseeded grapes)! It’s just a fact!!! This is a Queen’s Court. You, as a woman, have the opportunity to live, laugh and UNLEARN all of the negative things we were taught as children.

So ladies… don’t feel as if you were dragged into this community by some bizarre horny toad of a man who is only out for himself. Remember, he was caring enough to mention this to you. Married “single” swingers, if you would only take the time to caringly discuss this issue with your wives, you may not have to sneak out of the house with a lie. We say “may” because nothing is absolute and this lifestyle is not for everyone. But if you communicate with your partner and show her that this is not just for you, but for her also, you could be on your way to a wondrous journey together. No hiding, no shame, no lies, no guilt! Think about it! The truth will give you freedom.

Yes, the man is usually the one who brings up the subject, that is because men are brought up less sexually repressed than women. But it is the woman, who ultimately has the final say. Embrace this power ladies. Do not use it to hurt, use it to enhance. We live in a wonderful world filled with beautiful people. Sex is normal, sex is good. Once you take those small steps to sexual freedom, you will find your partner and you experiencing a journey together that is unparalleled by anything that the “straights” enjoy. The total freedom to enjoy the mutual satisfaction of another person if you so desire. The warmth, the mental stimulation and the red hot passion. It’s all there for us, just waiting for us to conjure the love and understanding that we all have. Breathe it in and enjoy life!!!

I will close with this joke…

At 7pm a husband brings his wife to a swing party, kicking and screaming. At 7am, the next morning, the woman is dragged from the swing party, kicking and screaming!



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john lewis asked:


Are you a swinger? Do you wish to grow your swinging network? Then, how about planning a swinger travel? Most of the swingers join a swinger community or club to meet other lifestyle couples and singles. However, these medium are confined in a given local area and sometimes we have reaped so much fun out of these communities that we look out for a change. A place where you can relax and enjoy sexual pleasures

You can meet several swingers at these lifestyle vacations. Moreover, these people come from different geographical areas; hence you get to learn about their lifestyle and experience. You can also share some private moments with them without any social restrictions. These swinger travel destinations organize several adult activities which will add all the more fun and excitement to your leisure voyage.

Nowadays, you can find several swinger cruises and resorts that provide you with a luxurious environment with all the facilities and leisure activities. Moreover, the swinger vacation is not only about sex, it’s about getting nude and enjoying various sports activities with your spouse or swinging partner. You can also book a resort or yacht to organize a week long party for your swinger friends.

Hence, you can grab your favorite drink and groove to the beats of your favorite music at the swinger travel destination. You can also get naked and enjoy some close and intimate moments with your swinging partner in your private cabin. Moreover, the swinger resorts and cruises have an open environment that gives you the opportunity to take a deep breath and chill out while being surrounded by the secluded beaches and islands.

So, what are you waiting for? Immediately log on to an online travel portal and book your tickets for a Swinger Travel to expand your swinging network.



Start swinging today

john lewis asked:


Swinging is a lifestyle that separates the feelings of love and sex by a thin line. It says that you don’t need to be in love to enjoy sexual pleasures. Hence, sexual encounter with someone you love is known as lovemaking not sex. Sex can be executed with anyone and everyone. However, if the sexual activity is conducted after the consent of your spouse, then the activity is known as swinging not cheating.

Hence, people plan a swinger travel to different parts of the world. They meet likeminded individuals and fulfill their sexual desires. It is a mutual practice that values the feelings and boundaries of the respective swinger partner. Every swinger is open to a wide range of activities that are bound to please his/her mind body and soul. However, you shouldn’t force anyone to become a part of the particular swinger activity.

You can find several newbie swingers at the swinger travel destination. These people are apprehensive about their feelings and desires. They hesitate in approaching other swingers for a swinger activity. Initially, they act as voyeurs and try to learn about the swinging culture. Once, they get confidence about the liberated lifestyle, they start indulging into activities like bisexuality, polygamy, couple swapping, threesome, group sex etc.

However, you should remember few things as a newbie swinger couple. You should make sure that you maintain proper hygiene of genital parts. You should carry a towel wherever you go to maintain the hygiene standards. Moreover, you shouldn’t forget to conduct safe sex with precautions. This prevents the inflictions of AIDS and other communicable diseases. These basic precautions are necessary for a safe swinger travel.

Hence, the swinging lifestyle is a gateway to a sexually explicit lifestyle. So, grab the opportunity now and plan swinger travel for yourself.



Become a swinger now …

Sallysuzy asked:


To loose weight is an achievement that requires us to totally surrender to ourselves, to beat ourselves up enough that we are forced to take action. In loosing weight we need the right mind set to want to grab life by the hand and lead it into a new realm. People often set out to loose weight with a goal of loosing a certain amount of weight or looking a certain way afterwards. These people will achieve the results if they are focused and stubborn but will they maintain the results because once you achieve that set goal is that the end. Loosing weight needs to be about loosing the self you know now and understanding the new you who is just around the corner.

Every time people decide to loose weight they often concentrate on loosing weight, exercise and what they are eating but people forget to take time to think about how they are as a whole would feel and be if they lost this weight. Your not only loosing weight but loosing an identity, an identity that comes with being overweight.

So in order for weight loss to work this time round you need to challenge yourself in several areas so as to merge with the illusion of a new you, new body, new feelings a new lease on life.

NASA decided to help their astronauts by creating a 21 day challenge of which they had to wear eye glasses that turned their vision upside down. They underwent this exercise for 6 days on and 2 days off but over 21 days. They achieved the ability to actually without the glasses be able to adjust to the upside down lifestyle of space flight.

It takes 21 days to create a habit and for it to stick like glue. Although there are tricks within the 21 days that will help it stick firmly.

10 THINGS THAT WILL MAKE 21 DAYS WORK

1.Choose a time that is your best time

If you know that getting out of bed at the crack of dawn means an angry grumpy person who does not function then don’t trick yourself into thinking that you will get up and go running at that time. On the other hand if you are someone like myself i know that at the end of the day you don’t get home til late and going to do exercise in the dark is not the most enjoyable or safe in some cases.

2. Commit to doing something and anything the first 7 days

Work out what you enjoy doing when it comes to exercise, swimming, going for a run, hitting the gym, throwing on a dance or aerobics video….

If you have never enjoyed running or if you find it a real struggle you will never be able to commit to 7 days of running every morning. You will find every excuse under the sun to why you can’t get up, or during the run a stitch may arise or your ankle might get sore your mind will be fighting against you. So for the first week lets choose things we know that we can manage and succeed in.

3.Don’t use the word Try

If you are trying something it means you have already failed, use words that motivate you, tell people what you are doing, find a friend to do a walk with out of the week or even a different friend everyday for a different activity if it will mean getting you out there and enjoying it, socialise a bit.

4.You need to be realistic

If you have never gone to the gym 7 days a week or run around the block every morning then realistically you are not suddenly going to do this and maintain it. Sure you psych your self up that you are going to empty the fridge of all bad food, do exercise everyday and drink a litre of water everyday….BE REALISTIC. Start with 20mins twice a week.

5.Choose an ideal weight

Stop saying LOOSE WEIGHT change it to I want to be…….. not I want to loose weight. Get exact, own it! The more you have the ideal weight imprinted in your mind the more you will crave to have it and the pain of not being it will drive right up to the gate of your ideal weight and boot you out the car in no time. So when people say you trying to loose weight, Yes I want to be….. put it out there.

6.Get Upset

In life we are drawn to pleasure and away from pain. So make it painful when your jeans don’t fit, have a tantrum when the scales say your overweight, beat yourself up. Use the fuel of being upset or angry to propel you off the couch and into the gym. Drive to work and remember you could not fit your favourite black skirt and take the stairs. Fuel for Growth.

7.Throw away your scales

In fact take your scales and hide them somewhere even give them away. Muscle weighs more than fat and that is a fact. So If you are going to the gym and lifting weights you are building muscle which is great but the scales are going to be a lousy judge of were you are at. The best gauge is to find a pair of trousers that don’t fit and keep trying them on (obviously not every day ).

8.Stop eating when your full

This has got to be the biggest downfall we all have and we have had it drilled into us form an early age also “Don’t waste food, their are people starving in the world” . So come dinner time we pile the plate up and we keep going until it is clear because we would hate to waste any food or heaven forbid people may think that you have an eating disorder if you don’t gobble it all down. The body is an intricate machine it knows what it needs to fuel itself, it also knows when it is full, so listen to your body and stop when you feel full.

9.We are 90% water

Water is an amazing thing, not only does it satisfy any thirst, it is available everywhere and is arm lengths away at anytime. So no excuses for not drinking water! The way water works with reaching our ideal goal is to flush out the toxins, help hydrate the body, keep the body working and the metabolism racing. If you have water in your vision; sitting on your desk at work, a glass by your bed at night, a water bottle in your car or hanging out by the water cooler. You will find yourself drinking water all day if it is in your sight, you may even find yourself drinking more than you have ever before.

10.Have FUN!!

Exercise is fun, you need to find what exercise you find fun. Maybe breaking down the moves to your favourite hip hop video, dragging your partner to swing dance or simply taking a walk to your favourite cafe from home instead of using the car. There are so many ways to exercise that do not confine you to the gym, involve running or wearing lycra. Think outside the square. Do you remember the days of hula hoops and skipping ropes? what about letting the dog walk you for a change.



Become a swinger now …

john lewis asked:


The swinging practice has become a vogue among people from all age groups. People with different shape, color and size gamble into the lifestyle to extract sexual pleasures at the socially liberal environment. However, you need a medium through which you can interact with other swinger couples. Some people join a swinger club or plan a swinger vacation to please their sexual fantasies.

However, if you don’t have ample time to plan a swinger vacation, then you can join an online swinger community to meet swinger couples from different parts of the world. However, you should take the following precautions while approaching other swingers.

You should be honest with your spouse as well as potential swinging partner. You should know about your swinger hopes and desires before planning a swinger activity.

You should be honest while creating a profile or placing a photograph on a online swinger community. You should trust your instincts and contact swinger couples who are truthful about their identity and swinger aspirations.

Your profile details must be friendly and interesting. You should avoid displaying personal information like address, telephone number, last name etc.

You should place your original photos on the profile. These images act as your identity, when you plan a meeting or a in-house party with your swinger friends. Many swinger couples approach your profile due to the interest in your profile image.

You should conduct a voice chat through internet or cellphone before planning a meeting with your online swinger friends. A one to one conversation reveals a lot about the person with whom you wish to explore a particular swinger activity.

Analyze various aspects before planning a meeting with your swinger friends. You should meet at a safe place to avoid any mishappening.

Be sure about your swinger desires. Never fool around with new activities that can ruin your swinger date with the swinger couples.

So, follow the above guidelines and increase your swinging network beyond your local area.



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