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December 23, 2008

UK Swingers and Dogging Couples Enjoy the Cold Weather

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Irene Thebeauty asked:




What do you do if your partner has a sexual fetish but you don’t? Don’t panic - why do you think adult activities like swinging and dogging was invented in the first place? UK swingers and Dogging adults use their communities to satisfy their partners’ unusual sexual needs if they themselves can’t deal with it.



It’s January and freezing cold in Europe but that doesn’t stop UK Swingers having hot passionate sex and dogging couples meeting in outdoor places for some dogging fun.

Body heat is still the best way to stay warm and UK Swingers and Dogging adults can vow for this fact. While the UK is experiencing freezing temperatures the UK Swingers and dogging community is heating up things at their adult parties.

Who ever thought that dogging and swinging was just a summer activity probably had a boring sex life. The winter is the most romantic season of the year, where more people crave for other human interaction and especially sexual intercourse. UK Swingers and Dogging couples know this and that is why you’ll find that more people join their online communities this time of the year.

Instead of staying in bed and eating, you can now get invited to cozy UK Swingers parties at a private residence with a lovely fireplace. Or you can be even more adventurous and drive to a freezing cold outdoor area and then have dogging fun in your heated car while the voyagers stand outside in the cold and watch. Yes we know that is probably evil, but it’s still fun.

Accessorize for the freezing weather

Use the cold weather to your advantage and accessorize with some sexy and hot winter toys. If you are doing UK dogging in the cold then take a warm blanket with you and also dress warmly in a cute woolen hat and sexy boots.

You also get very sexy outfits for UK swingers in a sex shop that will allow you to have sex but not remove your clothes. You only have to open certain zips to have proper sex - now that’s hot! Some people have a glove fetish and they say that it adds to their sexual thrill, you should also try wearing clothes while you are out dogging in your car in the winter.

Chocolate body paint at the right temperature is also a nice way to heat your sexual partner or the UK Swingers couple your playing with up. Don’t forget to take lots of lubricant to your dogging outings as a person tends to be dryer during the winter.

This advice has hopefully made you feel warmer and ready for some hot, passionate swinging and dogging sex!

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December 23, 2008

Swingers Guide to Finding the Man’s Erogenous Zones

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Aphrodite asked:


Although this article was written to help swingers and other liberated couples enjoy their sexual encounters, it contains information that will enhance any sexual relationship.

It is a fallacy to believe that a man’s erogenous zones are mainly confined to his penis. By understanding more about what turns a man on, your sexual experiences will be greatly enhanced. Liberated women often demonstrate their ignorance of where to find a man’s other erogenous zones by reaching out for his penis at very early stages of sexual encounters, rarely straying far from it throughout the experience.

Activating the other zones is best done when the man is relaxed. Proceeding in a gentle fashion, the stimulation of the other zones can promote intense feelings of pleasure that can rival the strength of the ones his penis. It is even possible to make a man achieve orgasm without touching his penis at all.

A man’s nipples are an important erogenous zone; sometimes on a par with those of a woman. Even though his nipples are flatter and smaller than those of a woman, they have a similar capacity for erotic stimulation and actually harden and rise when fondled.

The best way to start on the breast area is to use your whole hand to gently hold and brush over his breast. Then stimulate his nipples by massaging the immediate area around them with one of your fingers. Alternate this by squeezing the nipple between your fingers. Continue this action on one nipple for a while with differing intensities ranging from gentle to fairly strong pinching. Then move to his other breast and repeat the same kind of procedure there.

The area between the navel and the penis is an extremely erogenous zone for most men. Stick a finger into his navel and tickle it. Vary your movements between light tickling and heavier massaging. Also vary the speed of your movements. Tease him by following the grove right down to where the penis begins, lingering there for just a few seconds before working back up again to the navel.

For most men, the scrotum scrotum is probably the most sensitive erogenous zone. This can include the testicles but be sure to be gentle when fondling this particulary sensitive organ.

Start by holding the scrotum in your hand, providing massage by applying gentle gripping pressure alternating with partial release. Fondling the scrotum in this way generates sensations throughout the whole genital region. It also increases the blood circulation so that all of the genital organs are engorged.

Treat the testicles with extra care, providing gentle movements with your fingers. The level of pressure should range from a light tickling to a soft fingertip massage. Find the hidden part of his penis by gently probing behind his scrotal sack, by probing with your finger tips between the testicles and then massaging it. Vary the pressure here. You can safely be less gentle in this area and a sudden, stronger movement with your fingertips will promote intense pleasure sensations to his hidden penis root.

Stimulation of the man’s prostate region promotes intense pleasurable sensations. It is best stimulated by squeezing it between your fingers. Press down against the urethra or massage it up and down along the urethra. Alternating between gentle and less gentle pressure will usually promote slightly different sensations, increasing the man’s pleasure.

 

Pay attention to the area between the buttocks. This is another very sensitive area. By sliding your fingers up and down from where the cleft starts at the base of the spine to the opposite end between the legs, intense erotic stimulation can easily be achieved. Linger in the region deep inside the cleft that is nearest  to his anus and tickle around it. By stretching each buttock to the side and opening the rectal area highly erotic sensations are generated.

By stimulating the anal region area in the you will spread waves of  intense pleasure throughout the man’s whole body, sending ecstatic signals to the genitals and up his spine up to the base of his neck.

The best way to stimulate the rectal opening is by applying gentle circular movements with your fingertips. Carefully insert a finger into the anal opening and move it gently in and out. Add a little pressure but be careful to check that this is okay with your partner as people differ enormously with regards to how much insertion is pleasurable and at what stage it can become painful.

More tips for swingers and other sexually liberated people can be found on our swinger dating and swinger parties website



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December 22, 2008

Adult Forums Unite Europe, Spain and Usa

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Irene Thebeauty asked:


Swingers from across the world can now interact with each other via Adult Forums, the latest feature offered on Adult websites. These forums allow adults from the United Kingdom, Europe, Spain, USA and other regions to give each other advise about the way they live the swingers lifestyle. Because they all come from different cultures and backgrounds the topics discussed in these forums are very broad and very informative.

To make navigation simple the Adult forums are divided into the following main categories:: Assistance and Etiquette, Chill out Zone, Other Activities, The Social Scene, TV/TS/CD’s and the Gay Forum. Each main category is then again subdivided into smaller categories to make sure that all the content are relevant to the topics. For instance the Assistance and Etiquette main category branches out to ‘Forums and Adult Community’ and ‘Swingers Etiquette’. If a swinger is not sure of the rules that apply at a private swingers party then they can go to the Swingers Etiquette forum for advice.

The sub categories of the Instant Action section are based on the location of the swingers to make it easier for local swingers to meet. There are thus separate forums for swingers from Midlands, East Midlands, North East, North West, South Central, South East, South West, and West Midlands all in the UK; Europe; Northern Ireland; Scotland; United States and Wales.

You will be wrong to assume that the Adult forums only cater for the stereotyped swinger – white and middle aged. Adults from all ages, races and sexual preferences will find a forum where they can interact with similar couples or singles. There are forums for gays, transvestites, Newbies (adults who are new to the swingers scene), doggers and even adults who are into gangbangs, role play, fetishes or bukkake.

Swingers going on holiday can also take advantage of the Holiday-meet up section on the adult forums. Here they will find out the best swingers clubs and dogging spots in the area where they will vacate. They can also meet other swingers who resides in their holiday destination and arrange via the adult forums to meet up. This holiday-meet up section is a win-win situation for both the locals and the swingers going on holiday as they both will score!

Safety and Security is very important on the Adult forums and all the members identity are protected. This is done by allowing them to choose a user name that they will use to interact with and to post comments on the forums. Swingers can also use the free email system of the adult site instead of their own private email addresses in order to protect their privacy.

Do you want to get advice or post on the Adult Forums? Then all you have to do is sign up for free at TheAdultHub.com!



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December 22, 2008

Rv Owners are Swappers - not Swingers

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Damien Priest asked:


RV Owners are Swappers – Not Swingers

Well some RV owners may in actual fact also be swingers, but that would be a different story altogether.

Welcome to the world of RV swapping or RV exchange. No leather or handcuffs here folks, just your RV (motorhome, campervan, fifth wheel, Betty the Bus, whatever you call that thing), your air tickets and your adventurous spirit required. Much like traditional home exchange, you can now exchange RV’s all over the world.

One emerging website www.holitrade.com actually specializes in this type of exchange program, and it’s completely free. RV owners throughout the world can place a free ad on the site, get in touch with each other via email, and work out the finer details of an exchange. The site currently has users wanting to exchange from the United States, the UK, Australia, Canada, France, Ireland, New Zealand and many other parts of the world.

While there are several opportunities to swap RV’s on the site, there are added opportunities. For instance there are also homes, yachts, canal boats and cruisers. So you may want to do a package deal. You could exchange homes and RV’s, as well as the family car. So there really are opportunities to stay in total comfort in a home in a city somewhere, before hitting the road. There are also many vacation homes for exchange near beaches and ski resorts.

Organizing any type of exchange requires a fair deal of communication prior to handing over the keys. Emails back and forward about travel dates, expectations and any special needs, “Can you feed my Rottweiler?” are the norm. Quite often you may have a relative or friend hand over your keys if you have already departed for your holiday. Having a local contact to assist each other with any enquiries is a good idea.

It is also a good idea to put your agreement in writing. Holitrade has a standard agreement both parties can fill out. Just remember to put in any special requirements.

If you would like to scan some of the ads you can just click on the link below. The latest ads are at the bottom of the page.

www.holitrade.com/DetailSearch_result.php

Compared to hiring a campervan exchanging makes great sense and can save you a fortune. Currently it’s around $200 per day Australian to hire a decent sized motorhome. Most people doing this type of traveling quite often do so for weeks and months on end, so the bills quickly pile up.

To sum up what makes a good exchange. Lots of clear communication prior, put your agreement in writing, and respect each other’s property. Happy and Cheap travels!

Now, better get started on the swingers article…………It’s all about the research.



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December 22, 2008

Sex Games for Beginners

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Gabrielle Moore asked:


If you and your partner are not yet 100% convinced about taking part in sex games to help improve your sexual relationship and increase your level of intimacy, all you need to do is to start slow and begin with sex games that are `non-threatening’.

You see, most couples equate sex games immediately with bondage, whipping, giving up control to your partner, and the like. And although there is a bit of the `giving up control’ part, it really doesn’t have to be in a threatening way. The best way for you to start appreciating what sex games can do for your relationship is to start with `level A’ or `beginner’ sex games.

Beginner Sex Games You Can Try Tonight!

THE A-B-C GAME

The object of this game is to pay attention to the different parts of your lover’s body that starts with each letter of the alphabet. The easiest, and least threatening, way to start this sex game is to MASSAGE these body parts. For example, you can massage her Ankle, and then move on to massager her Back, and then move on to massage her Calves. You get a point for each letter of the alphabet you are able to massage.

Now, it’s your partner’s turn. She gets a point too for each body part massaged. At the end of the sex game, the one with the most points wins! The winner gets to indicate to his/her partner that ONE sex fantasy that he/she has always been dreaming of and the other partner needs to comply and help bring this sex fantasy to life.

HOT Variation Tip #1: If you guys are more daring, then don’t massage each body part as you do the A-B-C game… lick each other’s body parts instead.

HOT Variation Tip #2: To make the game more fun and exciting, have two bowls or buckets next to you. One bowl has the letters A-Z, the other has action words such as massage, lick, caress, use a feather, use your hair, use a sex toy, nibble, suck, etc. Now you can end up massaging one body part, licking another, caressing another part, and so on.

CREATING A STORY

The object of this sex game is to create a lustful story that you both end up fulfilling in the end. You must provide answers to Who, What, Where, When and How. For example, you may say…

Who: you and me

What: make love

Where: on the floor

When: tonight

How: doggy-style

Create as many scenarios as you can starting with `easy ones’ like the one outlined above. Put all these scenarios in a fish bowl or some other wicked container and then when the mood strikes, simply whip out a `story’ and do it tonight!

HOT Variation Tip #1: Use two containers, one with X-Rated scenarios and one with XXX-You-Gotta-Be-Kidding-Rated ones! When you guys are ready to progress to more daring sex games, simply take out a scenario from the triple X rated bowl.

STRIP POKER

Who can resist such a classic sex game? Before you start though, be clear with what the winner is entitled too at the end of the game. For instance, does the winner get to `demand’ a service from the loser, or does the winner get `full access’ to the loser?

With strip poker, simply play poker and for every hand or round where one loses, he or she should remove a piece of clothing. The game ends when one of the players has absolutely nothing else to take off.

HOT Variation Tip #1: Instead of playing poker, you can play chess instead and assign a penalty for each chess piece captured. For example, every captured pawn means a French kiss, every captured knight means a lick for 5 minutes, and others.

HOT Variation Tip #2: For the really daring couples, play strip poker or naughty chess with swingers!

LET THE FAITHS DECIDE

For this game, you need dice and two sheets of paper. Number each sheet from 1-6. On one sheet, assign body parts. On the other sheet assign action words like suck, lick, massage, bite, etc. Roll the dice and see which body part is the object of the sexual activity. Roll the dice again to see which activity should be performed.

HOT Variation Tip #1: Add a third sheet that indicates time such as 30 seconds, 2 minutes, 10 minutes, and others.

HOT Variation Tip #2: Change sheet # 2 with more aggressive sexual activities such as penetrate, go oral, and others.



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