November 24, 2008
Got What It Takes To Be Swingers?
By Swingers NET in Sex 101 | 20 comments
DanAndJenn asked:
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My wife and I are interested in swinging but we’re not sure how to get started. We’re not all that attractive and we’re afraid to approach people. Please help.
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gansy004 | Nov 24, 2008 | Reply
I bet she can suck a cock or two
Kinor7 | Nov 25, 2008 | Reply
This is ab..so…lute…ly sick.
thejackean | Nov 27, 2008 | Reply
Yikes! This guy is a REAL COCK eh?! hehe
tigernov6 | Nov 30, 2008 | Reply
Bro. or sis….the words hunger and mate have more than one meaning. It does not necessarily mean the way you interpret it. I mean a different meaning to the common meaning of these 2 words.
skuzzyknuckles | Dec 1, 2008 | Reply
and one of you fave videos is a man mating with a crocodile…americas hunger for sex? what?
skuzzyknuckles | Dec 4, 2008 | Reply
what the hell are ya even talking about? America is repressed as hell
skuzzyknuckles | Dec 6, 2008 | Reply
That’s some good advice. Even being a single guy, obviously before I was married, I wanted a low pressure situation. I’m not a social butterfly, nor am I the obvious best looking Mac daddy in the room. But swing clubs, contrary to rumors and news reports, are very low pressure places. Even if I waasn’t one to enjoy swinging, I’d prefer those places over bars. hardly any drama there.
tigernov6 | Dec 6, 2008 | Reply
What you guys say is strongly related to American’s hunger for sex and sex exaggeration.
Quote these in the YouTube search engine and watch the videos:
“Angela Collins - Muslim Convert weeks after 9/11 Incident”
“”The Buddhist Attitude to Sensuality” by Ajahn Brahm”
V3125 | Dec 7, 2008 | Reply
If you need a translation on that, you and your spouse/partner get together with another couple for a joint sexual encounter.
DanAndJenn | Dec 9, 2008 | Reply
From our good friends at Kasidie Lifestyle Magazine: At first glance many people might assume that swinging is all about sex. But it’s much more than just sex. It’s about meeting people and making friends who are a lot like you — uninhibited, open-minded, non-judgmental, sexually expressive and open to enjoying life. It’s about truly being yourself and enjoying a life that is totally uninhibited and uncensored in every way.
OBxSMITHxOB | Dec 12, 2008 | Reply
i have a question what are swingers?
DanAndJenn | Dec 14, 2008 | Reply
The ONLY realistic way to reduce STDs (and similar other gems) and teen pregnancies is to be informed - to know what the real risks are and HOW to avoid them. People are not going to stop having sex. That’s unrealistic.
Which is why we’re so adamant on this point - be smart, be informed, be safe.
DanAndJenn | Dec 17, 2008 | Reply
BTW, on average swingers (who have sex with others) are more likely to have safe sex than singles who meet someone in a bar, because that “culture” promotes safe sex.
The real problem is the “ostrich” approach to safe sex (i.e. the abstinence fallacy), which cannot work in the real world, which is why we have so many people with STDs and so many teenage pregnancies. It’s amazing how many guys think they can have unprotected sex if they just “pull out fast enough to not get her pregnant”.
DanAndJenn | Dec 20, 2008 | Reply
Also… It is not for us to say if people should or should not try swinging, BDSM, oral sex, anal sex, or whatever else. That’s arbitrary judgment based on each person’s individual preferences, and frankly our society has enough of it. Our goal is to help people be informed about their actions so they can be smart about it. What goes on between consenting adults, well, is their business.
DanAndJenn | Dec 22, 2008 | Reply
So are you also saying that all non-married people should not engage in sex and that we should only be limited to one sex partner - ever?
How many sex partners have you had? And be honest…
edmondov | Dec 23, 2008 | Reply
Maybe you people should discourage swinging. We don’t need more people with STDs. If you really need to engage in that kind of activity, maybe you people should split up and not be committed.
jeanintro | Dec 25, 2008 | Reply
Self confidence is one of the keys, but also you need to be very confident on your relationship and in your partner. Talk! If either of you feel uncomfortable, talk about it.
You need to choose wisely the place or the swinger club you choose to go to, as it was told on the video. Many many clubs are unsafe and are not comfortable at all. Shop around and have fun, responsibly!
Good luck
Miko7778 | Dec 26, 2008 | Reply
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toamaori | Dec 26, 2008 | Reply
they’re US!
pretywoman34 | Dec 27, 2008 | Reply
thank u this nice video