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Irene Thebeauty asked:


Do you know Holly, Kendra and Bridgette - the sexy blond Playmates and Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends? Most guys watch the reality TV program “The Girls next door, featuring these sexy girls and they are jealous thinking why does Hug Hefner get to have sex with these 3 blond girls and I can’t. The good news is that you can have sex with gorgeous woman that is just as good looking as these playmates. The even better news is that you can meet thousands of swingers sex contacts for free!

Ok, so how do you go about meeting girls like Holly and Kendra or thousands of other swingers sex contacts. Luckily you don’t have to be a billionaire with a mansion like Hef. All that you need is internet access! Once you sign up with an adult website for FREE you can meet swingers sex contacts who live in your area - and trust us there are a lot of sexy blonds that live in your area.

If you are not into the All American blond types, then don’t fret. There are adults from different cultures, backgrounds, races, ages, sexes and with different sexual preferences on Adult sites. They may be different but they all have one thing in common - they want to make other swingers sex contacts!

What’s great about making swingers sex contacts online is that your privacy is protected. You can be anonymous and use a swingers name when you interact with other swingers online in chat rooms, forums or via the internal mail system. You can also first get to know someone in this environment before taking the next step and meeting them in real life. It’s also easier to tell someone your sexual fantasies over a chat room than in person. Maybe you are shy and you don’t want to get naked with a stranger. Then you can use an adult webcam chat room to get intimate with your new swinger sex contact without them actually being with you.

Other great features that you can use on an adult site in your quest to make new swingers contacts is the advanced search option. You can search by breast size, penis size, air colour, region, age and race. You can also look at the photos and videos of the members and their sexual preferences before you decide to make contact with them.

So the next time you are watching a reality program featuring sexy girls, don’t worry just switch on your pc and meet your very own Kendra, Holly and Bridgette who will make you feel even richer than Hugh Hefner!

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Aphrodite asked:


These days everyone seems to think that the only way to make contact with swingers is by logging into your favourite adult dating or swingers dating site and use the messaging services or chat rooms. Although these are excellent ways to make contact, they will fail if the people you want to meet up with no longer go on line. Although the online swinger dating clubs should be keeping their membership databases up to date, inevitably they will still contain many records of people who to all intents and purposes are no longer active members.

Whilst many of these inactive subscriptions belong to people who are no longer interested in adult dating fun, there will also be many more who are actually still very keen to make contact with likeminded individuals or swinger couples. This situation occurs for a variety of reasons such as having a computer break down, being too busy to log in or just finding another adult dating or swinger site that they wanted to try instead. If you try to make contact with anyone who falls into these categories you will have wasted your time using any of the online contact methods.

Long before the days of sophisticated online, swinger dating sites, people used to be just as successful making contact with one another by post or by telephone. At one time, all adult dating clubs offered mail forwarding as their main, if not only, means of making contact between members. Later on, most adult dating clubs added telephone contacting and some delivered an excellent service offering contact by telephone as the only medium of membership communication.

Sadly, as the Internet technology developed, making modern online dating sites possible, most adult and swinger dating clubs seemed to omit offering members a telephone contacting service. This may have been because everyone was so in awe of the new technology they didn’t stop to even consider the virtues of the tried and tested traditional methods of communication.

Some of the adult dating and swinger clubs that existed long before the online database technology came into existence did however combine the old with the new. At Club Aphrodite, a swinger and adult dating club that had been in existence many years before the Internet sites, we chose to retain both telephone and postal contact methods and to offer them alongside online adult dating. Members who wish to make contact with each other by telephone set up voicemail boxes to ensure that their own private telephone numbers are not publicly disclosed.

Many individuals and swinger couples prefer this method of adult dating because it does not rely on a computer always being at hand. This is especially important to couples who have children in the house who might use a family computer and discover that their parents have been logging into a swinger dating site. 

The next time you log into your favourite adult dating site, check out whether it offers any telephone contact or voicemail services. If it does give the service a try for some of the people you have been trying to contact online. You’ll probably be pleasantly surprised by the number who get back to you and when they do, you will also discover that they often are more likely to actually meet up.

 



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Ron Mark asked:


How do you feel about swinging? Do you consider that such sexual experiences can offer you and your partner some fresh perspective on sexuality-related issues? If you still are not certain if swinging is the best way to go, then read the following article. It will certainly offer you some perspective, plus mention the importance of online swinging communities and where to find swingers ads.

Swinging is mainly the experiencing of something different. It is about the skin, the smell and the touch of a completely new person against yours. It is all about breaking stereotypes and transforming sexual fantasies into true realities. Swingers are not interested in making their sexual preferences known to the whole world; they maintain complete discretion and prefer to use the Internet to find people who can fulfill their desires.

Swingers ads are the best way for people with correspondent interests to interact and open the lines of free communication. They can take all the time in the world and discuss about all kinds of sexuality and relationship issues. By using an online adult dating service, they can find swingers clubs where people enter and talk about anything that goes through their mind. They exchange thoughts about sexual fantasies, including role playing and bondage games, talking about putting them to practice.

The erotic pleasure that can be derived from swinging is immeasurable. Exploring the side of our sexual nature with our partner and another couple, engaging in group sex, threesomes or all kinds of sexual activities just goes to prove that we are indeed sexual beings and that some of us really feel comfortable with what we are. Swingers represent the kind of people that prefer to go a little further and penetrate into some of the most incredible and almost bewildering sexual fantasies. They find swingers groups with the help of swingers ads and share common thoughts planning meetings and intimate encounters. They just love to be satisfied and most of them have declared that their existing relationships have deeply improved after such experiences.

Scientists have been paying close attention to swingers and the development of online swinging communities. They’ve made extensive research and discovered that swinging can improve relationships, helping people to communicate more freely and be more honest. Not only that people who explored swingers ads and met with some members felt a lot happier, but they declared that their lives are now more exciting and that includes the sexual part. For many couples, engaging in swinging activities with the help of the Internet has been more than they could wish for. The channels of communication were open and they both felt more confident in their sexual nature than before. Online swinging clubs have definitely their merit, especially since they don’t judge and tell. They just offer a free-judgment environment for people who are not shy to explore their deepest sexual fantasies and show how far imagination can reach. It is all about sexual attraction in the end and enjoying the very sexuality that we have been gifted with.

The adventure and the thrill offered by swinging escaped can help couples rediscover passion without the fear of cheating. Swingers ads are not just for heterosexual couples; they are open for everyone, bisexuals, gay or lesbians. What they are trying to point out that the sexual status is not as important as the exploring sexual fantasies. What is important is that the sense of excitement and opportunity to put dreams into reality can help one reach the highest peaks of pleasure. All with the help of the Internet and online swinging communities!



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Stewart asked:


What attracts swinger couples to swinging

There are many things that attract people towards swinging. Some are obvious and common, whilst others are individually deeply rooted and quite obscure. Instead of trying to analyse all possible motives, the ones listed below are probably the most common and easiest to understand. They are based on the experience of having organised and attended countless swinger parties over the last fifteen years, and asking swinger couples what attracted them to swinging in the first place and are:

1. Curiosity - such couples very rarely do more than socialise with other couples and after one party their curiosity is often satisfied

2. Social - Couples who do not really want more than an uninhibited social relationship with like-minded couples.

3. Exhibitionism – Couples who enjoy being the centre of attraction and sexual longing but may or may not want sexual relationships with other swingers.

4. Voyeurism – Couples who are primarily motivated by watching others and may not want to participate themselves.

5. Relationship therapy – Couples who feel the need to add some spice to their relationship by jointly exploring recreational sex with or in the company of others. This motivation is usually the one that provides genuine and lasting involvement on the swing scene.

6. Bi-sexual leanings - Most commonly where the female partner is bi-sexual and wishes to explore or develop this aspect of her sexuality with similarly minded swinger females.

7. Impotency etc. - There are a surprising number of couples attracted to swinging because the male partner is impotent or who for other reasons enjoys watching his partner having sex with other men. 

8. Male chauvinism or misogyny - Couples with a chauvinistic or even misogynist male partner who want to believe that their partner is keen to swing when in reality she is not. The female in such a relationship is usually just going through the motions of trying to please her insensitive partner. Sadly this is far more common than many on the swing scene care to admit. Although many such couples will disappear from the scene after one or two meetings or parties, others can last out playing their sad game for years.

The couples who want single males

The couples who make up the first two categories listed above are most unlikely to be interested in the attentions of single males. It is more likely that such couples will be quite adverse or even hostile to the very presence of single males at swinger parties.

Within the exhibitionism category there are bound to be swinger couples who enjoy single males lustfully watching them but only a small minority of these will welcome more intimate attention.

Voyeurs want to watch females and other couples. It therefore follows that this category will not include many couples who enjoy the presence of single males.

Similarly the motivation of female to female bi-sexuality will automatically exclude interest in single males.

Of the remaining categories, single males can more or less rule out being wanted by category eight as these “pseudo-couples” are led by a male, using his largely uninterested partner as ticket into the swing scene.

This leaves categories five and seven. Within five, the relationship therapy category, there is a small proportion of couples who enjoy relationships with single males and because this category produces the couples who are most likely to be fully active over a long period of time, they offer single males a real chance of sustained involvement in the swing scene.

Category seven is obviously going to provide the main source of couples for single males but because of its nature the couples it represents are inclined to be older than the average for the scene as a whole. Single males that are only interested young and attractive couples will probably not find too many who match their requirements.

How single males can break through these barriers

What has been presented so far may seem to offer a gloomy outlook for single male swingers. However by working within this realistic appraisal of swinger couples and their motivations, determined single males can break through the barriers and enjoy regular swinging fun.

In addition to understanding which couples are likely to want them, they can simplify the process of acceptance by organising and hosting their own swinger parties, inviting only couples and single females.

Once they have found a couple who wants to enjoy a threesome relationship with them, they will be able to accompany the couple to some (but not all) swinger parties.

Of course, the best way of all for a single male to get into swinging is for him to find a single female who is also interested. The best way to do that is to join a good adult dating club.



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Aphrodite asked:


A group of swingers on a bed doesn’t guarantee good sex for everyone involved. It is difficult enough for two people in a couple relationship to get it right, so it should be pretty obvious that it will be more difficult when three or more people who usually know much less about each other get together. Yet somehow this bit of common sense logic is not often realised by swingers.

The same sort of mistakes that men make about what they perceive women want are probably made as often in swinger group situations as they are in couple intimacy. The women in swinger group activity usually add an extra assumption that is not possible during one to one sex. It is  the assumption that the men expect them to behave bisexually. Whilst being true that watching bisexual activity between women is a turn on for many men, it is not always the case and a performance of it should never be used as substitute for heterosexual activity.

Many of the things the men do, they do without thinking it through. In one to one sex a very common mistake is for men to act aggressively, believing that most women enjoy things a bit rough and that they see aggression as a desirable indication of true masculinity. Fortunately this is a less common mistake in swinger sex because of the presence of the other men. Nevertheless, it is a error that is sometimes made, particularly when a man is performing with his own partner and showing off his dominance over her to the other participants. Behaving in an overly aggressive way without knowing what the other participants want, is more likely to cause fear and dislike rather than admiration.

The opposite mistake is for the men to be overly passive, letting the women do all the work. This trap is actually easier to fall into in a swinger group situation than it is in one to one sex. The women themselves will often appear to encourage it by giving lots of oral sex to the men. Porn movies can probably be blamed for this tendency with their prolonged scenes of actresses performing fellacio.

Oral sex and other foreplay are as important in swinger sex as it is in couple sex but it still has to be mutual. Laying back and receiving has its place but it must be complimented by as much giving. Women no more desire to be used as masturbation vessels in a group situation than they do in one to one sex. The occasions that this might not be the case are mainly where a woman is only involved in swinging to please her partner. In such cases, masturbating the other guys might be perceived as an easy alternative to allowing greater intimacy with her own body.

 

The very nature of swinger encounters, prevents participants from overdoing experimentation. This is a common mistake by men in conventional sexual relationships and it can cause their partners embarrassment and make them feel very uncomfortable. People find it hard to express not liking something that their partner clearly enjoys because it can so easily be misconstrued as a rejection. In swinger sex, the fact that more people are involved and are less well known to each other, makes it much less likely that any one participant will push to experiment with something that is outside of the groups normal behaviour. The other side of this coin is of course a tendency for swinger sex to become somewhat boring and predictable. But then swinger relationships are by their very nature about moving on to new ones all the time!



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